Not as Shocking as The Headline States

So what's the answer? When in doubt, don't! Don't let fears of being alone dictate a night out with someone you have nothing in common with. Don't continue to date a man with whom you have zero chemistry. Chemistry matters. Don't say "I do" because you have "invested too much time in the relationship" or it's "the next logical step." And absolutely don't think that divorce can be used as an escape route without consequence. Divorce is not easy even when you are the one serving the papers. It's expensive, painful and it affects everyone around you.

Puzzle Love

When I was stressing over my recent medical issue, John bought me a 1000-piece jigsaw puzzle of this Paulo Romero painting as a get-well gift. It's taking me a while to put together, and I'm actually opting to use the enclosed insert for comparison. This is rare, because I prefer to put the puzzles together without the help of the image. My goal is to have it put together before he leaves back for England.

Things I've Never Done

( ...because it was funny scanning Shinga's list )