Not as Shocking as The Headline States

[trickykitty]

So what's the answer? When in doubt, don't! Don't let fears of being alone dictate a night out with someone you have nothing in common with. Don't continue to date a man with whom you have zero chemistry. Chemistry matters. Don't say "I do" because you have "invested too much time in the relationship" or it's "the next logical step." And absolutely don't think that divorce can be used as an escape route without consequence. Divorce is not easy even when you are the one serving the papers. It's expensive, painful and it affects everyone around you.

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[damia]

I can think of at least three people, one of which is male, that expressed similar sentiments that they knew they didn't want to marry their spouse on their wedding day.

I kinda want to ditch the whole big overdone wedding tradition. Elope. Go to the JP.
If you make it ten years then have a big shindig to celebrate the accomplishment.
This was one of the reasons I took Bishop and I's ten year so seriously. We talked about having a renewal of the vows, but it wasn't finically feasible. It was also 'being together' not 'married.' So I get another shot in about four years. :P