This is hard to take: when you once were made to feel like you meant everything in the world to someone and then you come to find out that is not the case.
It sounds more like you're describing him than me. I don't think I've been distancing myself, or if I have been, he hasn't mentioned it. He has put me in a situation where I really have no other choice at this point. It's gone from a conversation about what will happen whenever he decides to leave to being one of him misjudging me and my personality and therefore he doesn't think I'm right for him.
You are right, of course. I am writing from a position of knowing him a lot better then I know you. If, however, this can help you to understand what is going on with him, and why, a little better (and perhaps even what is going on with you, in reaction to him), then I hope you can take what I offer, and use it well.
If it helps to make things a little easier for you two to talk to each other about stuff, then that's great.
It's gone from a conversation about what will happen whenever he decides to leave to being one of him misjudging me and my personality and therefore he doesn't think I'm right for him.
That sounds just a bit too familiar, although in a totally different circumstance. Sorry things got all hosed up, babe. Hang in there.
I'm thinking about what you said.
Date: 2005-06-23 04:33 am (UTC)It sounds more like you're describing him than me. I don't think I've been distancing myself, or if I have been, he hasn't mentioned it. He has put me in a situation where I really have no other choice at this point. It's gone from a conversation about what will happen whenever he decides to leave to being one of him misjudging me and my personality and therefore he doesn't think I'm right for him.
Hence my original post.
Re: I'm thinking about what you said.
Date: 2005-06-26 02:17 pm (UTC)If it helps to make things a little easier for you two to talk to each other about stuff, then that's great.
Hope you're both O.K.
Re: I'm thinking about what you said.
Date: 2005-07-05 06:03 am (UTC)That sounds just a bit too familiar, although in a totally different circumstance. Sorry things got all hosed up, babe. Hang in there.