It's your subconscious explaining to you "No one makes me a doormat - especially you." So now you have to deal with it all the while remembering and making sure you don't repeat the mistake again. You can't ask for that apology now - the time is gone, the lesson can't be learned by the person that perturbed you. It would just look like you flipping out over nothing. Trust me - it will not "just make you feel better to get it out into the air". The person will be blindsided and you will know: thus robbing you of "getting it off your chest".
Just don't let it happen again. You can wait an hour or a day to cool off and approach someone but if we're talking months... nope. No newspaper whapping joy for you, my friend. :(
Unless it's assault, statue of limitations on an ass kicking is a decade.
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Date: 2013-02-12 03:56 pm (UTC)So now you have to deal with it all the while remembering and making sure you don't repeat the mistake again.
You can't ask for that apology now - the time is gone, the lesson can't be learned by the person that perturbed you. It would just look like you flipping out over nothing. Trust me - it will not "just make you feel better to get it out into the air". The person will be blindsided and you will know: thus robbing you of "getting it off your chest".
Just don't let it happen again. You can wait an hour or a day to cool off and approach someone but if we're talking months... nope. No newspaper whapping joy for you, my friend.
:(
Unless it's assault, statue of limitations on an ass kicking is a decade.