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trickykitty) wrote2011-08-10 09:05 am
trickykitty) wrote2011-08-10 09:05 am
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I Got Sticky Stuff On Me
I'm getting an unexpected level of enjoyment out of reading Life Coach articles online. I hate self-help books and articles. Most of what I'm reading is actually me comparing notes - stuff I've done for myself and thoughts towards my current relationships versus what they are writing about. I'll chalk it up to post-choice supportive bias.
Hold on to your vision, but let go of your pictures.
You have to be in a relationship with someone you respect.
When we immediately go into dating someone with no knowledge of them other than hoping that he's "the one," we begin to project. We create things that we want to see. ... Going into dating a man knowing that he's not the one creates the space for you to just enjoy him and get to know him. It allows you to learn about him for real, not for what you would like him to be.
Hold on to your vision, but let go of your pictures.
You have to be in a relationship with someone you respect.
When we immediately go into dating someone with no knowledge of them other than hoping that he's "the one," we begin to project. We create things that we want to see. ... Going into dating a man knowing that he's not the one creates the space for you to just enjoy him and get to know him. It allows you to learn about him for real, not for what you would like him to be.